It’s someone’s first birthday today.

One year ago, we finally got to meet our little dude on April 17, 2011. Callum Rhys Maxom-Wiebe came charging out into the world with his arm raised above his head.

What a roller coaster this first year has been. You have taught me patience, humility, greater compassion, and unconditional love. I have cried so much, but through that you have taught me to slow down, smile and then finally, to laugh again. I have learned so much from you about myself and have grown to be a better person and parent because of you. Even though you have physically exhausted me to a point beyond reason, our early morning starts are exciting. Your smile, your excited gurgle and your vigorous crib rail shaking awaits my arrival. I pick you up and bring you into bed for an early morning cuddle (one of the only times you allow this) and try to prolong the good, warm, sleepy feelings for as long as possible. Once you are done nursing, you tell me you’ve had it and want to get moving. You are active and have a mind of your own. You are stubborn, but deliberate and methodical. You are easy going but strong willed. You are precious. You are ours. We are a family.

Happy Birthday Bubba Cub

xok

March is over, thank goodness. We’ve been all sorts of sick and are now back on our feet. This post will be a big photo dump of everything we’ve been up to, from spring break on.

The carousel at the Village Museum

Over spring break we went to the Burnaby Village Museum and enjoyed all sorts of old-timey stuff. I’d been holding off going, because I thought it would be hokey- but it was just the thing to cure the boredom and stuck-at-home doll drums we’ve been in! A was super excited about the carousel but  was quite freaked out once we got there. It goes really fast and the horses are quite high so the first few rides were spent on the sleigh bench. We eventually worked our way up to the stationary mini-horses just right for toddlers.

This inspired me to dig out a pop-out book that my Aunt S gave to me when I was really young. Amina enjoyed it and added some of her own modern day dollhouse furniture to it along with critters and dolls.

I’m usually not surprised when Amina picks out books from the library because they tend to be quite predictable (cowgirls wearing boots, etc). One book tends to stand out for both of us though and it’s Traction Man. This book is geared towards little boys which follows an action hero saving everyday objects from around the house, but who has a special action hero outfit for every adventure.  Amina is quite enamoured with him. We found a printable pdf to turn Traction Man into a physical two-dimensional dress up doll. A match made in heaven. Here’s how it turned out:

Can I tell you how awesome it is when kids can use scissors on their own?

Art, art and more art.

This is an elaborate birthday gift- the gift is inside and the outside you can see is the wrapping.

Amina’s favorite reptile is a rattle snake. With a baby, of course.

Amina going on an Easter egg hunt.

This is C’s first art too! He’s been watching (and eating A’s markers) and now wants to have a go. So fun! I put some side walk chalk out and got him to pound on the blackboard. Looking forward to more art firsts with him!

Happy April!

xok

This may come as a bit of a surprise to some, but I like to shop. This sounds weird and incredibly shallow. I know this.

It gets me out of the house and I feel better and more relaxed when I buy myself and my kids nice things. I like looking nice (or thinking I do) and I get a great deal of satisfaction when people stop me on the street and ask where A got her super cute horsey coat (Hatley) or where C’s awesome shoes came from (tones of donations from my mommy friends). I love it when my chiropractor asks me where I purchased my coat from (Spank, 6 years ago) because she admires my style.

So in an attempt to stop the barage of clothes and things coming home from the shop with me, I am self-imposing a 60 ban on shopping. Groceries are ok. Make up at the grocery store is not ok. Stuff to colour my hair from the grocery store is ok. A gift for C when he turns 1 in April is OK. (Several gifts are not). Fabric and supplies for the etsy shop are OK- but they must be for things that are needed, not just because I like them. Un-pretty and unglamorous things like velcro and elastic.

What I find way too convenient is to buy things on-line and get them shipped to me. I love getting things in the mail. I think this is exacerbated by being on mat-leave and around kids 24/7. The e-mail newsletters for boutique kids stuff at 70% off etc are really hard to ignore. Don’t roll your yes- I know you think it’s nice when the Canada Post people show up with an envelope from an etsy seller or something awesome to read from Chapters or Amazon.ca for you too.

Ah, Amazon. The American version accepts Canadian credit cards and lets you ship to a US package holding outlet. Since Christmas, I have ordered:  books and a baby toy, a deluxe stroller, gorgeous leather El Naturalista sandals and new leather Teva boots. All from Amazon. In defence of the boots my old ones are so worn, the holes in the soles are taking on rocks and the leather is peeling from the upper- it is time to replace them. And I wear them all the time…

..and then a stick vacuum from Costco, some crafting felt from Benzie and wool felt from Bear Dance. And a cute polo t-shirt for C (In 2T). On sale with free shipping. Argh! On-line purchasing is evil. I will need to be strong to resist the urge. ( I had actually put links to all of these things, but started to do some math in my head and thought you might think me silly and extravagant once price tags where attached).

Let me stress here, that this is all paid for and NOT on credit. There is no maxing-out or hiding of purchases from M. I fully disclose and M seems to  begrudgingly accept this. However, I would like to save more and have less stuff in the house, so my next few posts will probably be about simplifying and de-cluttering.

I’m on the fence about consignment though. I bring items I make and some gently worn kids clothes for consignment and usually buy the kids some of the new toys or clothes from the consignment store in turn as I only get credit for the things that sell. It kind of feels like cheating if I take this and then turn around and spend it again. Or maybe I should limit this to using the credit for birthday gifts? I will have to think this one through some more.

I was inspired by Whoorl’s blog and her Pinterest board about not shopping for 90 days and so I thought I’d try to do something similar. I’m going to pin the stuff I think I want to buy and at the end of the two months (April 19) I’ll see how bad these things are burning a hole in my pocket. Do you want to try too? The more the merrier!  You can follow along and see what I’ve pinned at: http://pinterest.com/kmaxom/the-60-day-no-shop/

xok

 

Ever since New Years ended, A has been busily working on Valentine’s crafts. This has not been inspired by me, so it’s curious to see where this has come from.

The Heart day projects that she has been working on are as follows:

A Valentine's Crown!

A Heart pop-out card

 

 

Printmaking valentines for pre-school friends

 

18 valentine’s for everyone at pre-school

 


 

Valentine fortune cookies: This is what I made for A and M- we've been hiding them and finding them all morning!

 

I wanted to share the picture below because we had a really cute morning one day last week. A came out of her room, fully dressed and with a story already concocted. She was a cowgirl and the rocking moose was her horse dusty. She was going on an adventure with a map to find treasure. This continued all day long- even to the park where she made friends with a little boy who tried to steal her had. So totally wonderful and creative, my little star.


Happy New Year!

I for one, have been looking forward to January 1, 2012 for quite some time. Although 2011 was filled with blessings and joy, it also held a lot of upheaval, change, general malaise, lethargy and grumpiness. (I’m talking about me, folks). I know that these fine character traits are (mostly) sleep-deprivation related, so at the end of my wits, I decided to hire a sleep consultant just before Christmas. Once the sleep plan was delivered to us,  C decided to deliver one last twist of the knife and was sick with croup. The sickest baby you have ever seen! A seemed to weather the croup storm better, although had a few days of lackluster activity. So  once everyone was healthy (thankfully in time for Christmas), the sleep plan was put into place with near miraculous results.

Sleepdreams was a god-send. As a plus, because they are registered occupational therapists, you can claim a portion of the cost under extended health care benefits.

I enjoyed 8 hours of sleep last night. It wasn’t continuous, although it will come- C is slightly underweight at the moment, so our goal is to get him to wake up only once a night to nurse. It works. It really, really works. He slept from 6:45-9:15 (I dream fed him) and then until 1:45. From 2-7 am was one continuous stretch of FIVE HOURS. My goodness. The boy is napping properly and now sleeping. Just for the record, he woke up anywhere from 2-8 times a night. Not always to nurse, but always we had to go into the room to calm him. Now he does it himself. Am still in shock- but wow- I thought he was a happy baby before. The kid is now insane with happiness- which makes me all warm and fuzzy with joy too.

So anyhow- back to the new start. I have been wanting a new start for quite some time. With sleep finding its way back to my system for a physical re-charge and the mental turning over of a new year- this seems like an auspicious time to turn over a new leaf. I feel like a tonne of bricks has been lifted off of me. I am so relieved and happy that our family can have a fresh start. No more grumpy mommy. A  mommy with energy and vim! A mommy with an apron, roller-curled hair, a clean countertop with cookies in the oven- well- ok- let’s not loose sight of who I really am! I think the whole family is breathing a collective sigh of relief. Hello 2012.

In other home-related goings-on- I decided to rearrange A’s room around. As we have many small toy parts (playmobil not the least of them), it was becoming obvious that we needed more room for A to spread out and play with her small toys in a safe and baby-free space. We bought some small Malm dressers from Ikea to fit into the closet (one for A and one for C). I am still amazed that we can fit so much in them. Maybe it’s because I’ve been really strict about clothes buying- we just don’t have the space to house a tonne of clothes. It also helps that we have three drawers under A’s bed to store dress up stuff, summer stuff and stuff of C’s that is too big right now. We also have 3 tubs in the crawl space of donated boys clothes for C!

We moved the big dresser out of the room and that gave us so much more room to play with. We pushed her bed up against the far wall and she now has a bigger rectangle of play space to use. This will be good for play dates as well- as the room only really worked with one kid in it before.

So besides the two small dressers, the only other thing purchased was this cool white ottoman cube that you can sit on and open up to store things. I got this at staples for $15.

The fabric tree that I made A months ago has seen better days as she’d de-foliated most of the leaves that were within her reach. She has promised to stop picking them off if I re-do it, so I may decide to tackle that shortly. The only space I’m not sure what to do with is the wall above her pillow. Should I leave it blank? Add something? Any ideas or suggestions? I don’t want to put anything that can be knocked down in the event of an earthquake so no shelves. I’ll sit on it for a while, I guess and see what inspiration comes.

 

Check out the rest of the photos below.


Happy 2012!

xok


Our advent activities are well underway already. It’s hard to believe it’s December. I thought I might skip this one out this year due to sleep deprivation and feeling a bit taxed, but when I asked A what she looked forward to most about Christmas, she said that opening her envelopes each day was her favorite. So we obliged, but have done a stripped down version and have tried to incorporate family activities into the planning. Here is a picture of the calendar (the how-to is here) I made in 2010 and get to recycle year after year now!

Here’s what we have planned for the 24 days leading up to Christmas:

- pick out the Christmas tree with dad

-decorate the tree

decorating the house and tree

- bake cookies (and wrap them for pre-school friends)

yum- gingersnaps

Gingersnaps all wrapped up

- make gifts for Oma’s

- make a number of crafts from the Martha Stewart website

- sleep in new X-mas jammies

- get food for food bank

- write and mail a letter to Santa

- pre-school X-mas party

- decorate Omi’s house

- Science World to see the (X-Mas) dinosaurs. Ok this one’s not really x-mas related, but it’s been a while since we’ve been there…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

-watch a holiday movie and eat popcorn night

- paint nails pink and green

- decorate special gift bags for women’s shelter

- get holiday books from library

-Bright Nights @ Stanley Park

eTC.

We have lots of plans this season! A sleep consultant came last week and I am hoping she will bring an early Christmas present involving sleep when she sends her recommendations.  I’ll add that to my own personal advent-to-do calendar!

xok

 

While this years printmaking party was quite small (just three of us!), we managed to get creative and crank out a  number of prints. Here’s some highlights:


 Want to join us for 2012? Just let me know!

xok

This post is going to be a bit of a winge, so I apologize in advance…. I’ve been sick for the last two + weeks and it sucks. Sleep deprivation plus an entire family of sick peeps and no one to feel sorry for mom as she is the one trying to hold everything together and be sick at the same time. Sometimes it gets to me.

To keep my family busy and to try to maintain my already low energy levels- the following two books have come in quite handy:

1. Taro Gomi`s Play All Day

This book was given to me (yes a children`s book was given to me!) by my parents last year for Christmas. I`ve been saving it for a rainy day – which we`ve had a lot of recently- and it`s been a blast playing with the punch out figures. A`s been loving the new stories we can make with these people and animals. All you need is tape!

 

 

2. Made to Play by Joel Henriques

This one was a total spur of the moment. I had came across a mention of this book on the Artful Parent (sorry could not remember where) and on a whim decided to add it to my Christmas shopping order from Chapters. This book was created by Made by Joel blogger Joel Henriques and it`s been a total inspiration.

 

 

 

 

 

We really love the zoo mat he made:


Here`s our work in progress:

 

I love that we`ve been able to add a little bit each day to it.  First A made a map of the zoo she wanted to create and we named the animals we wanted in our zoo:

Then I cut out felt pieces and when I`ve had time and energy, I`ve sewn it to the mat. It`s been fun playing with the loose pieces too so weve been flexible with the play.  I love that long after the toilet paper roll animals have had their fun, we can make new ones, use different animals and even dinosaurs from our dinosaur collection.

I prefer the pieces sewn as that is one less toy I need to police with C crawling around and getting into. Incidentally, C is 7 months this week and crawling. Who ever heard of such ridiculousness. Our house is slowly undergoing some changes- like zap strapping cables to walls, strategically covering plugs and keeping an eagle eye out for small easily chokable items.

Getting back to Made to Play… I love that this comes from a male perspective. There are a ton of crafts and items in here that appeal to both boys and girls but also involve materials that I might not normally use (saw and wood for example) but that are easily approachable. Love this book and I know M loves it too! We already  have plans to make the construction disks for A as a stocking-stuffer:

and the modular leg bands we’ll be making when we want to play robots next:

Fun and awesome and I have all the supplies we need!!

Both books have been great resources and I’m glad we have them on hand.

So here’s to getting well again- anyone have any ideas? I’ve exhausted oscillococcinum and cold fx. Would try anything at this point!

xok

 

Well what a night!

Our little scarlet macaw brought home a tonne of loot despite only trick and treating for 20 minutes. Had a blast putting together the costume and love that A loves it. Here are some pictures of our month- Halloween, art and some other stuff we’ve been up to.

 

A scarlet macaw at pre-school

Whipped a macaw costume together for M- "special persons night" at pre-school

Not a scarlet macaw- C at 6+ months!

Angry bird from angry birds video game

Blue macaw made from Plasticine

Pre-school art

M's pumpkin- spooky

Have to say that I am a bit relieved that October is over- now I can officially get excited about Christmas and the holidays!

 

 

You’d think with a title like that we would own several blue macaws. Alas- A has become fixated with the movie Rio which stars- can  you guess? two blue macaws. Ironically she’s always been terrified of these birds whenever we see them at  Maplewood Farm.

Anyhow- she been playing some serious games with these two. Anything blue in our house is fair game. Building blocks, blue string, blue mittens- everything is being used as birds. I am in the process of needle felting her a bird, but that is on the back burner at the moment. Halloween is creeping up slowly and I’ve got a blue macaw costume to make! (inward sigh of relief that we’ve escaped the princess thing for yet another year!)

Blue macaw art everywhere too- which is awesome. I see her interests expanding and challenging her to draw and use new shapes.

We’ve been tackling different projects as well and using new materials- here is a necklace that we made out of old t-shirt tubes.

Cut them, stretch them and make them look like noodles.

Wrap them to cover the ends

Proudly wear them.

This is a picture A drew of me picking flowers.

A sheep.

New jacket for Callie:

M has been showing A how to use plasticine- it’s nice that they have this time together and this medium:

An alien and his planet

A ballerina.

September has come and gone with me kicking and screaming every step of the way and now we are into October. I am embracing the fall and the lead up to the holidays. Secretly one of my favorite times a year. I am resolving to get out and enjoy our creek and our trails more because all too soon the rains will be upon us. Here’s to many hours of future leaf collecting.  Happy Fall!

xok